From Survival to Thriving: How Relationship Coaching Changed Everything

“Before it gets crazy... go see her now.” That’s the advice from Roger and Rixie, a couple who transformed their relationship from the brink of collapse to a thriving partnership with the help of coaching. Their story is a testament to the power of commitment, the right tools, and unwavering hope.

By Carla McGowan

6/26/20251 min read

people riding boat on body of water
people riding boat on body of water

Tools That Made a Difference

Both Roger and Rixie came from backgrounds filled with dysfunction and were determined not to repeat the cycle. They learned practical, game-changing tools like LUV (Listen, Understand, Validate) and mirroring. These techniques helped them shift from arguing to truly communicating, ensuring each partner felt heard and understood before responding. When conflict arises now, they use these skills to clarify and confirm until they are on the same page.

A Life Transformed

The impact of these tools extended beyond their marriage. They found their relationships with friends, family, and siblings improving as they applied the same principles of listening and validation. One of the most profound lessons was that forgiveness is not a one-time event but a daily practice. This, combined with a conscious shift from a negative to a positive mindset, created a culture of continuous growth and progress in their lives.

Why You Shouldn’t Wait

Roger and Rixie's story highlights a crucial message: you don’t have to wait until your relationship is in crisis to seek help. They emphasize that if both partners are committed, a skilled coach can be a phenomenal guide to help you patch what’s breaking your relationship apart. The simple reminder, "You’re on the same team," became a beacon of peace for them during difficult times.

So, before things get any crazier—take the first step. Breathe. There is help. And hope.

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"These tools don’t just help us as a couple—they’ve improved our relationships with friends, siblings, and family, too."

Rodger & Rixie

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"Everything is figureoutable. You don’t have to do it alone."

-Rixie

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